It’s 5am in the morning, I’m drunk and am writing ‘cos my girl (not partner but more than friend) is sleeping. I’ll probably regret this tomorrow and maybe even delete it!
Love is all that we want it to be. For me it’s a hug and being wanted. It’s being held tight. The words may not be what I want to hear but the actions are what count. I want to be me-totally me!! With all my faults and sh**!! There’s enough good stuff about me and I know it. I love who and what I am. I want to share it. I want to talk about it. I want to express my feelings. Be it with words or my actions.
I hate being judged. I want to simply be able to be me!!! Whoever doesn’t accept it doesn’t last long as a friend. I want to be listened to. I want love and affection. I want support in times of need. Don’t think that any of this wont be reciprocated because it will. Thousand time over! Is that too much to ask?? I don’t think so! I’m old enough to understand all the intricacies of what I ask. I’m able to realise what I know and am aware when I am lost!
I”m comfortable in my body and mind. I love who I am. It’s too much for some. They can’t deal with the reflection of their own failings. I deal with mine. There are plenty of those.
So what’s the meaning of this rambling?? None whatsoever!! Just my thoughts and my feelings. I have a lot of those and am not afraid to express it in person. In this virtual world it’s something else. You don’t know me with all my goods and bads. So I’m more careful with what I write. I don’t want to be misunderstood. I hate it in fact. But it’s a fact of life that happens. In person I detect it and will negate it with my understanding of your perception and attempt to communicate what I mean in reality. You can see me and feel me. It’s more difficult online. But it’s there. I feel the people I read the blogs of and communicate with. Distance makes no difference.
So thank you for listening and reading what sometimes may be crap, but it’s me in total honesty. I adore this world of blogging I have discovered and am totally intrenched -who knows for how long? Who cares? As long as I love it I’ll carry on!!!! 🙂
Nurul's Culinary Adventures 
Your views in life, food, adventure, and now in love are 100% inspirational. I have no doubt you will receive the love you deserve..because you love yourself and know you deserve it! It’s so refreshing to read how you write, how you feel. It’s not all this woe is me blah blah billshit..its here I am world..I love me and you shall love me too!!
Magnificent.
Urrgghh…..I sort of have a recollection of writing something but ohhhh….feel like crap-hangover:-)
That’s wonderful that you feel inspired and that you tell me! It gives me courage to branch out on my blog into some weird nooks and crannies of life (and I’ve been in many:-))
Thank you very much!!!!!!!!!
I don’t know how much I’ll reveal about my love life but at the moment I’m not exactly a ‘good boy’ :-). Meaning I’m also not lonely (most of the time) and am loved. I realise I was always loved just not in the form I expected and wanted, namely in a relationship with a partner. Love comes in soooo many different packages. I was just often too blind to see it.
I despise autocorrect. It’s woe is me BULLshit, not BILLshit. Jeez.
Haha!
Nurul, your hangover will go away but your love and passion will remain! Here’s my post about hugs. http://missmaura9999.wordpress.com/2012/06/21/hugs/
Thank You!!